The father of Cody Coffman gave an emotional interview after learning his son was one of the 11 victims of the Thousand Oaks shooting in California.
Jason Coffman will miss the fishing trips with his first-born son, his companionship on the baseball diamond and the way his younger sons looked up to Cody Coffman, one of 12 people killed at a country-western bar in Thousand Oaks, California.
“I cannot believe it’s happened in my family,” Jason Coffman, 41, told reporters shortly after learning Cody had not survived the shooting massacre at the Borderline Bar and Grill. “I am speechless and heartbroken … My life has changed now forever.”
Authorities still haven’t named all the victims in the attack, which occurred Wednesday night at the bar about 40 miles west of Los Angeles. Police said the gunman, identified as Ian David Long, opened fired inside the country-western dance bar with a Glock 21 .45-caliber handgun, killing at least 11 victims at the scene.
A Ventura County Sheriff’s deputy later died from his injuries after confronting the shooter. Long was also found dead inside the establishment.
Ventura County has set up a Family Assistance and Unification Center where shooting victims and their families can seek help after the mass shooting at Borderline Bar and Grill, Wednesday night. (Nov. 8)
The bar was hosting an event for college students and was crowded with 19- to 25-year-olds, Sheriff Geoff Dean said. It was the deadliest mass shooting since 17 students and teachers were killed at a Parkland, Florida, school in February.
“There is blood everywhere,” Dean said Thursday morning.
In the early morning darkness, friends and family rushed to the scene desperately looking for their loved ones. They repeatedly called cellphones, scanned social media sites or urged law enforcement for answers.
Alaina Housley, a freshman at Pepperdine University, had gone to the Borderline to line dance with friends. As word of the shooting spread, her aunt, “The Real” host and “Sister, Sister” star Tamera Mowry-Housley, scoured social media, frantically looking for her niece. Mowry-Housley’s husband, Adam Housley, asked his nearly 100,000 Twitter followers for prayers, as they held out hope she was OK.
“Please pray if you believe …. pray,” he tweeted.
By late Thursday morning, however, the couple learned Alaina Housley didn’t make it out of the bar alive.
“Our hearts are broken,” the couple said in a statement. “Alaina was an incredible young woman with so much life ahead of her, and we are devastated that her life was cut short in this manner.”
Justin Meek, 23, never stayed idle. At Coronado High School, he was an Eagle Scout, president of the Octagon Club and captain of the JV water polo team, according to his LinkedIn page.
While attending California Lutheran University, Meek studied criminal justice and kept up his water polo skills, while also taking part in choir and serving as president of Club Italia. On the rare free time he had, he worked as a lifeguard for the city of Coronado.
Meek, who graduated from California Lutheran, was working Wednesday night as a security guard at the Borderline Bar and Grill when the shooting started and he died trying to save others, according to the university and several social media postings.
“Sadly, we have learned from the family that a recent graduate, Justin Meek, 23, is one of the precious lives cut short in this tragedy,” the university said in a statement. “Meek heroically saved lives in the incident.”
Meek was “a big, huge beast of a man, a big tall man. He was a security guard, but he was also a pussycat, one of the sweetest guys in the world,” said Tony Duran, owner of Goode Time Productions which supplies carolers such as Meek to Disneyland and other Disney venues.
A classically trained singer with a deep rich voice, Meek quickly memorized all 100 songs in the repertoire and dreamed of singing with his girlfriend at Disneyland’s Club 33.
The two had been talking of getting married and their future together as singers, Duran said.
“It was his dream to sing at Club 33 at Disneyland and that’s never going to happen. It was her dream to sing with him at Club 33, and that’s never going to happen – all because of the stupid choice that killer made that robbed so many people of hearing Justin Meek’s beautiful voice. It’s senseless.
“He was loved by so many people. He was just the sweetest guy you’ll ever meet. He was the guy you really wanted to have as a friend because of the joy he brought.”
Meek used his body to shield patrons. “He died a hero,” Duran said. “It’s going to be hard to not have him with us.”
Jason Coffman also rushed to the scene early Thursday hoping to find his son. Tearful and exhaused, Coffman said he feared Cody ran toward the gunfire, not away from it. “Cody is a tough kid,” Jason Coffman told Headline News. “He’s one of the kids to run toward a bully, to stand up for others. I think that’s maybe what he did.”
Hours later, after being told Cody died in the attack, Jason Coffman spoke to reporters, stifling sobs and leaning on his father-in-law, identified as Mike, standing next to him.
Cody was a good older brother to his two younger brothers, ages 8 and 9. Jason Coffman and his wife are also expecting a baby girl, he said.
Good with kids, Cody was the head umpire for the Camarillo Pony Baseball League and had planned to join the U.S. Army, Coffman said.
“There are so many people he touched,” he said, “who are now going to be as heart- broken as I am.”
Contributing: USA TODAY Erin Jensen contributed to this report.
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